Girls Who Work As Programmers

I notice one thing. Girls that work as programmers will be very 'chan'. One example I can give you is a programmer in my ex place who is working as a Senior Asst Mgr. The 1st time when I saw her I was like wow. But later down the road, she became very 'chan'. I have to admit being a programmer is difficult. Its worst when your stress and you dont take care of yourself. Even those vendors that come in and help me with stuff ask me what happen to that girl. Well I guess not only in programming, all types of work will make you stress especially now.